Bad Habits, Good Habits, How To Break Your Bad Habit
We all have habits we like to break whether, it's biting
your fingernails, smoking or eating late at night but why are these habits so
hard to break perhaps you think your day is made up of deliberate conscious
decisions but in reality, a university study found that 45% of your everyday
behaviors are actions that you repeat every day and tend to do in the same location.
These are your habits.
Habits are attributed to one of the most primitive
structures in your brain The Basal Ganglia, the same region that helps control
processes such as breathing and swallowing In an MIT experiment, a mouse sits
behind a gate of a T-shaped maze where to its left is a piece of chocolate . When
the door clicks, the mouse explores the maze sniffing and scratching up the
walls First it explores the right and then to the left, eventually finding the
chocolate. A scan of the basal ganglia shows it's working curiously throughout
the whole process. However after a week of training, the mouse runs immediately
towards the chocolate once the gate clicks. At this point there is very little
brain activity once the gate clicks and the brain doesn't fire back up again
until it reaches the chocolate Our brain seek to minimize effort and space and
this kind of automatic brain behavior is referred to as CHUNKING, CHUNKING aims
at creating a New Habit Pattern in cells of the brain.
It's like a task you do every day that you no longer really
have to think about brushing your teeth or backing out of your driveway skills
that were once difficult to master but now become automatic. This process is a
3 STEP LOOP Step 1 is the CUE which for the mouse is click of the gate Step 2
is ROUTINE run through the base and Step 3 is the REWARD, in this case
chocolate. The CUE and REWARD eventually intertwine creating ANTICIPATION and
CRAVINGS another central part of habits Because we go into automatic mode
during routines our brain stops fully participating in decision-making Our
habits will automatically unfold every time there is a cue These habits can be
so entrenched that the rewards doesn't even have to be good.
A study of habitual popcorn eaters found that they were
minimally impacted by hunger or how much they liked the food and they ate the
same amount of popcorn regardless of whether it was stale or fresh Our habits
often overrule what we know is good for us for example, a study of America's
TAKE 5 campaign to encourage citizens to eat 5 fruits & vegetables a day found
the programme was effective in educating the public but an assessment found
that it did not change American Intake where only 11% met the goal. It changed
people's intentions but not their habits so what are you to do? Charles Duhigg
author of THE POWER OF HABIT gives an example of buying a cookie everyday
around 3:15 pm at work The CUE is 3 o'clock but the Reward is a bit more
complicated as a cookie can be bundle of many rewards it could be a relief from
hunger or an energy boost to satiate your craving for something sweet or it
could be a nice break from work or even an opportunity to talk to people Duhigg
wanted to break his cookie habit and after some trial and error discovered that
what he really craved was socialization that came from buying the cookie So
around 3 he would getup and find someone to gossip with for 10 minutes instead By
using the same CUE and the same REWARD of Socialization he was able to break
the Cookie habit But what about the habits that you don't always notice like
biting your nails Psychologists suggest that first you think about WHEN you
bite your nails Are you Nervous? or Bored? In the case of boredom, Nailbiting
offers a PHYSICAL STIMULATION.
So, next you need to mark down every time in your day you
feel bored and have the compulsion to bite your nails Maybe that's 5 times a
day maybe its 28 But then you want to implement a COMPETING RESPONSE Whenever
you feel the desire to bite, you immediately put your hands in your pockets Next
find a substitute that provides a quick physical stimulation like rubbing your
arm or tapping your knuckles on the desk This allows for one habit to be
replaced by another with similar REWARD but also uses the same CUE so when you
are ready to take on a bad habit, just remember figure out what your body is
actually craving, use the same cue and reward that serves the correct purpose and
be patient to build that new habit.
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